I love How I Met Your Mother, I really do. The fact that it’s one of the few shows that can actually make me laugh out loud, the characters are all fantastic, and its constant ability to totally cross the line in a way that produces just the right effect are all qualities I really admire. However, I have one huge issue with the show: it’s basically all white people. I’m actually extremely disappointed in myself for not noticing this sooner, but as I continued to watch I noticed a major absence of color in the show. I still haven’t finished the series, but being most of the way through season 7 (out of nine total seasons), it’s really disappointing that this season was the first to have more than a couple sporadic appearances by people of color. I think maybe the writers realized this lack somewhere in season 7 because Robin and Barney both begin dating non-white characters, but it’s really unfortunate that it took until the show was 2/3 of the way over to change this. The only people of color in the previous six seasons were Barney’s brother, who only appeared a handful of times, the gang’s favorite cab driver Ranjit, Lily’s black best friend, Robin’s old singing partner, and some women who appeared in the montages of Barney and Ted’s ex flings. Other than this, no person of color received a sustained regular role on the show until season 7.
For being such a progressive and intelligent show, I really expected more diversity. As a long running show, HIMYM has sustained many subplots and brought in many new long term characters, almost all of which have been white. In other words, there were plenty of minor longer-term characters that could have been played by non-white actors, but this was never the case until season 7. Unfortunately, this has put a bitter taste in my mouth toward the show. Popular television is still largely dominated by white actors and actresses and in a show with constant additions of new characters in the extremely diverse landscape of NYC, the show had the opportunity to break the mold. Every day life is not a white-washed experience, every member of this society is vital and what we see on TV needs to reflect this. As viewers, it’s our job to demand to see more diversity on our favorite shows. As shows like Scandal and Orange is the New Black have proved, this can only enhance the quality and honesty of the show. If people want to argue that we are living in a post-discriminatory world, it’s high time to prove it. I’m glad HIMYM finally decided to diversify the cast of characters, but I can’t shake the disappointment that it took them 7 seasons to get there.
People consume media like water. With the constant streaming of shows, movies, and music, it’s important that what people are seeing matches the progressive thinking we are trying to possess as a nation. Each show has a social responsibility because people of all ages are watching and learning from what they see. Not another day should go by where individuals find they can’t identify with any characters from their favorite shows. So, this is my demand to television, especially predominantly white sitcom culture: step up your game.